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Re: [teacherartexchange] Difficult parent


From: Rebecca Burch (mamallama_at_TeacherArtExchange)
Date: Wed Nov 14 2007 - 11:48:49 PST

Sweet! Thanks, Deanna. You're right -- the important thing is that
Max wants to be an artist and is prepared to live the life of the
artist (which often means making less money, having student loans to
pay off, and taking other jobs while you wait for the job you really
want to come open.)

I am prepared to talk to the guy about that, but thought that maybe
some facts and figures might be a way to get some discussion going
about the positive aspects of the art field for career-seekers. (Can
you tell I've been rehearsing? The guy is a lawyer. I'm already

Anyhoo, thanks for the linkage. Regardless, I think Max is going to
do what he wants to do. I hope, for his sake, that we can do enough
cheerleading to get his Dad to at least accept this decision (or to
accept Max's right to make a decision on his own, which is a major
underlying factor, here.)

I'll let you know how it goes. Max is a tough kid, so he'll be
alright. I totally expect him to be the founder of the next Pixar or


On 11/14/07, Deanna Bowers <> wrote:
> I can certainly sympathize with you, as I am sure many of us can. I saw
> one of my wonderful former students at Costco with his mother. He was a
> VERY intelligent student and an amazing sculptor! Well, he happily told
> me that he had graduated college with a degree in sculpture. Then his
> mother said "yeah, thanks a lot. Now can you find a job for him?"
> This is my 11th year teaching art and I have had students go both ways.
> I have many that have gone on to art schools or to major in art and are
> quite successful. I also have those who had sooo much talent and went on
> to work in factories or become drug addicts. I have one who did go to
> school to become an engineer and came back to thank me for all I taught
> him because he said it was art and creativity that has allowed him to
> create medical devices to help heart patients. (and he is still doing
> art too!) I myself had a parent that was scared that I was an artist,
> and didn't want me to go to art school because she feared I wouldn't
> have a "real job." It breaks my heart about this boy "Max," because it
> is clear what his dream and desire is, and HE ISN'T AFRAID to pursue it
> (true sign of success), and that is what is important here, not
> statistics and numbers.
> However, I did go to a conference last year called "Learning in the Arts
> Cyberconference: At the Heart of What Matters for 21st Century Success."
> They presented a lot of the evidence you are looking for. I am not sure
> it will all be here, but I found a link with some video and resources
> and maybe you can find some gems. Here it is:
> Good luck, tell us out it works out. Deanna Bowers, California
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