I had the same source of stress a few weeks ago with two different parents.
Luckily time healed it. I realized that one parent wanted her son to be
accomplishing more than he actually was and she resented the grade and
comments I gave him. It was very dificult to keep my dignity and defend my
position. In the end I realized that sometimes the parents want some way in
which the student can make up what they failed to do in the past. I gave
one student an extra credit assignment which finally calmed his parent.
Another student with an irate parent I simply could not reconcile with
because she would not accept the fact that her child had misbehaved and I
commented n this via the report card. Unfortunately, my encounter with her
really upset one night of sleep, however, after about a week I was able to
let the whole incident go. I hope this helps in some way.
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From: "Bunki Kramer" <email@example.com>
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Subject: Re: How do you reduce stress?
> from: Bunki Kramer (email@example.com)
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> How do you reduce stress? Quit teaching middle school and go into a
> It's been a BAD week...can you tell? "Fuzzy slippers in the classroom" is
> NOT gonna make it for me this time around (which BTW was one of my own
> suggestions I wrote to the listserv a couple of years ago...silly, stupid
> me.) How can one irate parent make such a difference in your life? How can
> allow them so much power over me? Stressed to the limit at the