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I don't even go that far. I make it very clear that I will explain
something as many times as necessary to a student who truly doesn't
understand, but if it is a matter of laziness or not paying attention they
have to find their own way. And if they get the wrong information.. ah,
well.
It got to the point that I was so sick of spending hours writing explicit
directions(in addition to verbal directions and demonstrations) on handouts
and seeing them left on the table, that I had to do something. "Find three
other sources before you come to me again."
I can do what my mother could do --- I can raise just one eyebrow . When
they see this they just turn around and ask someone else. It's really kind
of cute to see their reactions. When I'm really in a bad mood I say "You're
not going to make me get up from my chair, are you?"
I'm talking about high school kids. And I know it's very different from the
little ones. I can do this because I have established a certain repartee
with students. It takes humor and understanding and sensitivity to "who can
hear what." Rules are one thing. But what I am most concerned about is
establishing responsibility. All students are individuals first and we must
respect that.
And it goes both ways. If the students don't respect you there is little you
can do.
Recently I began flying lessons. All my life everything has come easily to
me, but this is the hardest thing I have ever done. I really have to study
and sometimes when my instructor says "don't you remember this we went over
this on ...." I just want to cry out "no, I don't remember." Learning to
fly has reminded me that what I take for granted is sometimes VERY difficult
for my students. It has been a good lesson for me. I have a new
appreciation for learning curves.
Perhaps our school districts, instead of forcing us into worthless inservice
days and making us take credits for god knows what reason, should ask us all
to learn something brand new and experience the learning process.
Education is about learning to learn. Don't get so hung up on rules that
you forget we all learn in different ways. How I feel about the
bastardization of Gardner's recognition of multiple intelligence's is a
subject for another post.
Patty
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