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This post struck a chord with me. I was in a school that had a cafeteria murder
and subsequent gunfire around the building until the shooter was apprehended a
few hours of terror later.
At first, the parents were all very mindful of the faculty's (all women but one)
trauma. Then, slowly, things began to change. Somehow we began to sense a
growing parental attitude that teachers should be trained to disarm, negotiate,
protect the children with our bodies, etc. There was talk about special judo,
etc. It got pretty crazy, and granted, everyone, parents included, had been
traumatized by this event. But the only male faculty member stood up in a very
large PTO gathering and said, "Listen, if I wanted to learn to disarm and
negotiate I would have gone into law enforcement. I am here to teach. I enjoy
teaching your children, but don't try training me to take a bullet for them. You
want that, you need to either pay me three times what you are paying me, or get a
bodyguard." There was absolute silence. This was a very masculine man (who in
reality had been very, very affected by the murder, feeling deeply he should have
been able to protect everyone). One by one the teachers began to clap and stand
up. There was no more talk of karate' moves. This teacher, actually, in his
heart, would have "taken a bullet" for any of his kids, I have no doubt. But his
words set things straight.
Jen
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